You value independence and struggle with emotional intimacy. You likely learned early that needs were unwelcome and that self-sufficiency was safer than depending on others.

What this means for you:

You probably pull away when relationships get too close, struggle to identify or express emotions, and feel suffocated by a partner's emotional needs. You might end relationships when they get "too serious" or keep things casual to maintain your sense of freedom.

Your core wound:

You learned that vulnerability was dangerous and that expressing needs led to rejection or dismissal. You adapted by becoming hyper-independent and shutting down your emotional needs.

Your path forward:

True independence includes the ability to safely let others in. Healing is possible.